thanks to a bit of perfect lighting, i tortured the boys long enough to get in a few good shots yesterday. love seeing them play together, and d is remarkably patient with fynn though he does genuinely get hurt sometimes!
today the light is very flat, as its ..... snowing!!!! they boys are thrilled and I'm rather pleased myself.
a conversation this afternoon shed some light on the anger bit (thanks P!) but not sure where to go from here. i've always been a people-pleaser, which is a piece of the root. liking myself, flaws and all, is another. the two are connected, and well-illustrated by my eldest.
will likely be muddling a long time.